The Hermit, 9 of Swords, Queen of Pentacles reversed

Again with the swords in the back!  I can't help but notice a pattern, that there are certain people in my life whom I have asked specifically for help in the recent past, and that these people have responded by saying no, either in words or actions.  The pattern of needing help, asking for it, and then being rejected has a next part that I am not understanding just now, unless it is that I am not to need help?  Or I am not to ask for it?  Or I should find other people to trust and depend on?



kin 12: Yellow Crystal Human 
I Dedicate in order to Influence 
Universalizing Wisdom 
I seal the Process of Free Will 
With the Crystal tone of Cooperation 
I am guided by the power of Flowering